Best get comfy, this is a long one……!! The afternoon of my first day back did improve slightly on the morning. The other new Data Quality Officer, who started after I went off sick, kindly gave me something to do, all be it, mind numbingly boring, but better than sitting there all afternoon and all day Friday twiddling my thumbs! It was nice to see everyone from my old work, I went round both Thursday & Friday to have lunch with them! Another new person has started in the department as well, she’s come in on Application Support and it turns out I know her from when we were young! We didn’t particularly get on though! Despite this she was lovely to me, if a bit ‘over the top’… I think she’s a bit of a kiss ass to be honest but, it’s better than being bitchy and bad feeling between us I suppose! I’ve spoken to my old line manager and she’s more than happy for me to go back there if that’s what I want. She’s suggested we have a chat when we’re all back from Annual Leave, which, should be the week beginning 10th September. Now, I do think I want to go back, but I want the same money as I’m on in this job, also, I go back to clinic about my hand on 17th September so I’d like to wait and see what the Dr says then, cos if I do end up having to have it operated on, I don’t wanna go back and then go off sick, plus, when I go back next week, it’ll be my first week with the new line manager and things may be different in my new job then. I think I could like it, if there was more variety to it, so we’ll see. I’ll hold back on the decision making for now I think! I’ve got to give it a fair shot, I mean, I was only there 3 weeks before I hurt my hand, it’s no time to make a decision is it? Hmmm…
I have had a particularly good/interesting weekend! Friday night after work I popped round to Chelle’s as I had a bit of stuff for her, I then had to go to the cash point and pick some chips up for Abigail’s supper. By the time I got home it was 6.20 pm, bearing in mind, I was meeting Sue at 7 pm to go to the club. So basically, I had 40 minutes, to have a bath, bath Abigail after she’d eaten her supper, get ready, get Abigail’s overnight bag pack, get Abigail to Mum’s so she could sleep there! And, guess what? I managed it!!! I got to Sue’s at 7.03 pm precisely… and then guess what?? Sue wasn’t ready!! She’d not even had a bath, cos she’d had a houseful of folk!! Lol!! She didn’t take long to get ready though and we went round to the club. We had an absolutely blinding night! It was a right laugh. We were well drunk by the time Andy and them came up from the Lakeside. Andy was also well hammered, and kept complimenting me on the, ahem, size of my, ahem, cleavage…! Only then, all his mates joined in… in the end every time I got up for owt, they were all giving my cleavage a round of applause…. How embarrassing ay? Me, Sue, Andy, Andy’s mate and Andy’s brother, then decided at 11.50 pm, we NEEDED a Chinese! So I ring them and see if they’ll still deliver and they agreed. We then proceeded to order just about everything off the menu! Every time the woman started to read the order back to me, someone shouted summat else to add on and then we all went back to Sue & Andy’s for that. When the food came, it was in a HUGE cardboard box, that’s how much we’d ordered. Andy then decided to try and barter with the delivery driver over the price. It came to a total of £27.93 and Andy told him he’d give him £25 and do a dance for him! So Andy did this full on, belly dance type thing, on the doorstep and when he’d done the delivery drive just looked at him and said, ‘That’s £27.93 please’… we were all rolling about laughing in the living room! It’ s probably one of them where you had to be there! Anyway, we ate that and we were all sat in the living room, when Andy’s dad came in… He was proper on one! Lost it big style… there is a LONG story but I’ll shorten it down for you… remember I said Sue’s brother in law and his partner had split up… well his Dad has took this quite hard and doesn’t agree with the fact that both have them have also erm… ‘moved on’ to other people, shall we say?? So he whacking Sue’s sofa with his walking stick! We were all just sat there, gob smacked! Then he went, next thing we knew, he’d chucked all Jamie’s stuff out on the street!! All Jamie’s sons old pram and everything, so at 1.30 am we’re dragging stuff in off the street!! It was unbelievable! It was an amazing night, we’ll never forget in, that’s for sure!! I went home at about 2.30 am! I was knackered all day Saturday!!
Then, Saturday night, was not so good. We had another ‘Family Barbecue’ to go to. The last one was fine, and a lot better than we expected it to be! However, this was not the case Saturday night! We got there and both my Mum’s brothers were in a horrible mood. Uncle John (Sue’s Dad) was screaming at Max for something he hadn’t even done. So that obviously but Sue’s back up. Then Uncle Frank decided to sit next me and started calling my Dad! How fucking rude and disrespectful ay?? I sat there listening to him and thought to myself, if I say summat here, I’m gonna fly, and I knew that if I went, Sue & Carly wouldn’t be far behind. So I sat there, basically, letting him rip my Dad to shreds!! I’m absolutely livid about it. The only reason I didn’t say anything, was because it would mean there’d be bad feeling at the wedding next week and I didn’t want that for Carly, and also, I know that once I’d let it all out, I’d never speak to them again, including my mum probably cos she was on as well! How dare they… when Mum left Dad, she did it while he was away with my Uncle Frank for the weekend, he basically had no idea, came back on the Monday to find his wife, kids and most of the furniture gone from his home? You’d be a bit indignant wouldn’t ya?? But no, they’re not the ones in the wrong…. My dad is!! Righto!! I was talking to Carly yesterday and she’s as mad as I am about it, I said to her, I’d bite my tongue if they start next week cos of the wedding, and obviously Dad and them have got to be in the same room. But, Carly said she won’t be biting her tongue if they start, so all hell could break loose, cos Dad’s family will be there as well obviously!! But even if nothing comes out at the wedding, I’ll be having my piece with them, I’m not having it!!! He’s my Dad at the end of the day, everyone is entitled to their opinion and I’m not asking them to like him, but don’t sit there calling him in front of me… That’s just bang out of order!!
Yesterday was good though, Carly, Drew & Alex came round for their tea and then Emma, Lee, Jack & Kayla came up. It was lovely we all sat in my house til about 10 pm chatting and the kids were playing! As always it was a proper laugh, and even Drew came out of his shell a bit! He’s getting a lot more chatty with the family now, it’s only took nearly 5 years for him to get used to us! Lol!! Me & Carly have decided we’d be better off concentrating on Dad’s side of the family more (apart from our Sue obviously) cos they’re actually nice!! So I think that’s what we’re gonna do!
This week is obviously gonna be a busy one. Tomorrow, I’m going to Chesterfield to pick the photo’s up from the portrait place, gotta get Abigail a Birthday Cake and Chelle’s coming up in the afternoon! Wednesday is Abigail’s birthday, then Thursday and Friday the nail woman is coming most of the day and we’ve also got to pick the bridesmaid dresses on Thursday!! Phew, I’m getting tired just thinking about it!
In good news though, Liverpool won 2 – 0 away at Sunderland on Saturday!! Torres was amazing how he ran through the defenders!! And Voronin scored a blinder… and Momo Sissoko scored his first Liverpool goal as well, which was also the Club’s 7000th League Goal! So he’ll be in the history books now! That’s 2 away wins this season already!! We hadn’t won away from home by xmas last season!! Great start I think you’ll agree!
Oooh, by the way, lost 2 lb this week!! So still on course!! Yay!!
Better leave it that…. Boy, that was Looooong!!! See ya Soon XxXxX

